Searching for my Guardian Angel

Monday, December 15, 2008

A friend used to “for sex, girls need a purpose but guys just need a place” which I beg to differ, to me:

Sex is about control. Indeed, the world is filled with temptation and desires. Indeed, everyone has lust and needs. Indeed, we are at the prime of age only once. However, it all boils down to be disciplined enough to do the right thing. What makes us different from beasts if we cannot take control of ourselves?

Sex is about choices. We can still say “no” when everyone around us is doing it. We can still decline when seduced or threatened. We can still choose not to even if we had done it before. In life, we are given choices for everything and we do things simply because we choose to.

Sex is about love and respect. We shall realize that our bodies are not just ours. If we choose to harm it, our loved ones will get hurt as a result. Retrospectively, we shall only do with the loved ones who care, protect and take responsibilities of us. It is called love making for the love we share.

Sex is a belief. To me, it is to be done with the right person for the right purpose, and it is only meaningful in this way. In life, each of us has a set of values to adhere to. We can abandon health, wealth, fame, power but not this belief, as without this belief we are reduced to nothingness.

P/S: Maybe I should just live in the past era la. Nevertheless, this is what I believe in all the while regardless of the general social behavior and expectation today. =)

pursuing my happiness with passion@| 1:11 AM

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